Meeting Mrs Right is not as easy as it used to be. My granddad takes great pleasure in telling me how he married the girl three blocks down the street. Things are not that easy anymore, and many of us rely on speed dating and dating sites. More than likely, you will go through many trials and tribulations before you meet Mrs Right. But, how do you know if she really is Mrs Right?
The Art of Communication
Verbal communication is just as important as written communication. The problem is that we are not so good at verbal communication anymore, and for many of us, it is outside of our comfort zone. But, when you meet the right woman for you, you will probably find that you will be hanging on her every word. In fact, if you communicate well with each other, you may be the perfect match.
Does She Really Need to Be a Sex Kitten?
Our modern fascination with celebrity culture has led to many men believing they need to have a sex kitten in their lives. Believe me, the right woman for you is not very likely to be a sex kitten. You see, sex kittens have this nasty habit of scratching. It may be fun for a little while, but you will soon become tired of your little sex kitten when she stops purring. Better look for Mrs Right somewhere else.
Money, Money and Even More Money
Should your relationship be all about money? The answer to that question is a big fat no. Some of your friends may claim that they have found Mrs Right on some Sugar Babe site. Well, one day they will be sorely disappointed. They have found a girl who can best be described as a Gold Digger, and she is likely to be much more interested in your bank balance than snuggling up to you on the sofa on a cold winter's night.
Be Honest with Yourself ...and With Her
When you meet a girl tell her the honest truth about yourself. You are not the next Bill Gates or Brad Pitt. To tell you the truth, what really matters is that you are a nice guy. When you meet a girl who is happy to accept you and have just spent the last five bucks you had to buy her a coffee, you have met Mrs Right. She will adore your honesty and happily buy you coffee until your next paycheck comes in.
She is the girl who is going to be there for you come rain or shine, and will snuggle up on the sofa with you so that you can tell her all about your lousy day at work. In other words, Mrs Right is the Queen of Hearts and not the Queen of Diamonds.